FAQ
What is an assisted living community?
An assisted living facility is a type of senior housing provided for individuals who are no longer able to live independently because they need some assistance with activities of daily living. Assisted living centers are appealing to seniors because within the range of senior housing environments they offer a relatively high level of independence. If your parent is in good health and doesn't require much assistance with everyday tasks, assisted living is a terrific option. In fact, residing in an assisted living center is similar to having a private apartment, complete with private bathroom and kitchen, but you can rest easy with the knowledge that trained staff is on hand to help your loved one when necessary. Assisted living communities might provide daily living care for bathing, dressing, toileting, grooming, and eating -- however be sure to read to the contract carefully. In some cases, "personal care" is an additional cost, or an outside home health care agency is required to perform these tasks.
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What's the difference between assisted living and a nursing home?
Assisted living does not provide medical care, such as treatment for specific conditions or diseases like Parkinson's disease or hospice care. The assisted living facility will assess the elder to decide what kind of care his or her needs require. Nursing homes, on the other hand, are designed to house and assist individuals who have health conditions that require constant monitoring and round-the-clock availability of medical personnel.
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When is it time to consider assisted living for your parents?
In the Caregiver Forum, it is often suggested that if a caregiver is asking, "When is it time?" it is a good indication that the time has come. If you are no longer able to provide the level of care a loved one needs and hiring in-home care is not an option, an elder should make the move to a higher level of care. If your parent is confused, forgetful and sometimes wanders, their safety is at risk. If your parent has severe mobility issues and cannot get around the house safely and on their own, they need assistance. If you are at a point where you feel overwhelmed by daily care needs, "burned out" by the provision of care; it is time.
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Are pets allowed at assisted living?
Many assisted living facilities recognize the benefits of pet ownership for seniors, so they do allow pets with some restrictions in place. Check with your assisted living facility for details about number of pets per resident, specific breeds allowed, as well as size or weight restrictions.
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How much does assisted living cost and who pays the bill?
The cost usually varies and its paid out of pocket, insurance or through government assistance programs.
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What happens if I run out of money when mom is in assisted living?
You have a few options to consider if this situation occurs. First, discuss your situation with the facility. Many times, the facility will be willing to negotiate some kind of agreement. These situations are handled on a case-by-case basis, but they may be able to reduce rent or set up a payment plan to cover past-due payments. Second, check with your state's Agency on Aging to find out if there is an available program that may help you. Finally, check to see if your parent has any funds that you may not have tapped into or if they qualify for low-income or government subsidized housing.
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What can mom or dad bring with them to assisted living?
Your parent can bring any of their personal items that can fit in the apartment. Your parents can bring furniture, too. It's up to you and your parents to decide what pieces would make this transition a more comfortable one.
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Can a senior be denied by an assisted living community?
It is possible. Once the facility assesses your parent's health, they will decide if he or she is a good candidate. If your parent needs more care than assisted living provides, they will most likely refer him or her to skilled nursing, also known as a nursing home.
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